Sophie Cunningham: Pointers on How to Be a Boss

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This young lady is something else.

If you don't recognize the name, you will most probably immediately recognize the gesture that's become a sensation.

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If you didn't know the first thing about the WNBA or the Indiana Fever team she plays for, all it would take was that viral clip to know this is a solid, no-nonsense, stalwart young woman unafraid to point out the obvious when she feels the need to.

And a million memes were born from the moment Sophie's unflinching 22-second stare-down after Caitlin Clark tangled with DeWanna Bonner exploded on social media.

...She’s become one of the WNBA’s biggest personalities, with 1.5 million Instagram followers and endorsement deals, largely because fans see her as Caitlin Clark’s no-nonsense bodyguard who steps in when things get physical.  The 22-second silent pointing stare-down at DeWanna Bonner went mega-viral and turned into the internet’s go-to reaction meme for calling out anyone for anything, parenting fails, bad service, you name it. John Cena even posted it to his 21 million followers, and Cunningham’s leaned into it by posing for fan selfies with the gesture. People just love the unfiltered energy.

In her second year with the Fever, the 28-year-old has always been a loyal, take-no-prisoners pistol, even as a little girl. She had her older sister's back in soccer games.

...WHEN CUNNINGHAM WAS in grade school, she played in a soccer league with Lindsey, who was 2½ years her senior. Their father, Jim, was watching from the sideline one day when an opposing player walloped Lindsey and escaped the scuffle without a whistle being blown. Another parent started to voice his objections to the non-call when Jim nudged him, then urged him to stand down for a moment.

"Two minutes later," Jim says, "Sophie cleaned that girl's clock."

It became something of a running joke around central Missouri, where the Cunninghams grew up: If someone was going to dispense a cheap shot, especially against Lindsey, you could count the seconds before that same someone faced a reckoning. "Everyone knew, 'Oh, s---,'" Cunningham says. "'Sophie's about to go knock the s--- out of that sixth grader.'

"And I was in third grade."

Jim and Paula took to carrying around Cunningham's birth certificate in those days. Cunningham was the youngest on the field by about three years, but opposing players and opposing parents raised concerns. Wasn't that Cunningham girl too old? Wasn't she too big? Wasn't she too much?

If Cunningham wasn't playing against older girls, she was playing against boys, but even then, skepticism persisted. One day, the mother of a boy playing in Cunningham's soccer league approached Jim and asked him to rein in his daughter. The offending behavior: playing too physically. "When you run for a ball, there's probably a collision," he says. "Nine times out of 10, Sophie wasn't the one hitting the ground."

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In high school, she was a kicker for the school football team.

For all the tough love she hands out backing her teammates up, Sophie Cunningham spreads a lot of the joy she finds in her own life, too.

She recently held a basketball camp for 300 little kiddos...

...who were beyond thrilled.

And, after all the basketball instruction was done... 

...the beaming sports star made sure every excited little person who wanted a picture with her got one.

Cunningham even took time out to make sure military families got some of that sparkling love.

On some of those videos from the camp, you'll notice I haven't included the text from the Xweet, and there's a reason for that. Cunningham is the object of some incredibly disgusting personal attacks, which were hoisted with these clips of her at camp. Either racist or just vile, she is a lightning rod for the current state of the WNBA's dysfunctional and competing camps. Even the ESPN article is chockful of moaning about what amounts to Cunningham's white privilege giving her an advantage, while completely ignoring the black players targeting Caitlin Clark, which launched Cunningham's 'enforcer' role to begin with. No one paid a lick of attention to Sophie Cunningham until she began defending Clark from repeated and flagrant uncalled fouls.

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But WAAH is something many WNBA players and their apologists do very well.

..."The moniker that's often been associated with Sophie is that she's the enforcer," says Ketra Armstrong, a professor of sport management and director of the Center for Race & Ethnicity in Sport at the University of Michigan. "Black female athletes, when they're too aggressive, it's labeled as classless, as dangerous. 'That's hostile. That's violent.'"

That language matters, Armstrong says. It tells a story. It tells a different kind of story, depending on the protagonist.

"There have been Black players that have had the 'enforcer' moniker. They didn't get [endorsements with] Ring or ADT or Vivint. None of those came to them. We didn't see the same type of media clamoring to them, to represent their brands, to be their endorsers."

Who Cunningham is -- white, feminine-presenting and in line with traditional beauty norms, Armstrong notes -- and just as critically, who Clark is, helped set the tone for what Cunningham did last season and how it was received. It set the tone this season, too: After DeWanna Bonner tangled with Clark and the two exchanged unpleasantries, Cunningham then pointed and stared at Bonner for 22 unflinching seconds. Cunningham's finger point scaled her to new heights, but not all gestures are created, or received as, equal. Plenty of others -- just take Angel Reese's "you can't see me" wave directed at Clark in college -- inspired more outrage than celebration.

I would posit that the difference between Cunningham and Reese is a joyful, bubbly personality versus a scowling, perpetually aggrieved one. There are no chips on Cunningham's shoulders. Reese seems determined to make sure you see the ones on hers. One is a team player, and one seems to be a 'me' player. 

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...Cunningham, a 6-foot-1 guard, was a sometimes-starter but not one of the league's stars. A perfectly fine, middle-of-the-pack player, which isn't a slight at all if you ask her. There's an art to mastering that liminal space, she says, and that, in itself, is a feat.

"You have to be selfish a little bit, you need to shoot," she says. "But you also have to sacrifice a lot, too. You have to make sure the people who need the ball have it. Do whatever the team needs and be a great teammate. That's what I've always wanted to be. And that's what the middle ground is really about."

Multiply that times the resentment built into the situation, and that spills over into the racial ugliness constantly spewed towards Cunningham online.

And now, Cunningham has a whole new batch of lunatics to ignore, spitting in disgust at the so-called 'MAGA Barbie.' Hopefully she can do so safely, as she has hit that third rail fearlessly.

The one about protecting women and girls from biological men in their locker rooms and sports.

...You say she's authentic? That's because she is, she says. "You see so many people change or try to fit into a box," she says. "I don't even know what that box is. It's a fake box. Everyone wants to look the same. Everyone wants the same vibe. Screw that. I'm gonna be me."

You say she's a "MAGA Barbie," as some corners of the internet have taken to calling her? Projection, she says, because of what she looks like and where she's from. She'll weigh in on how to "protect women's sports," she says, because she's in that world and feels qualified to speak to that world. "I got a lot of negative feedback about me hating trans. And I'm like, 'I never once said that,'" she says. "I think that I am here to extend love. But I also think with that love is truth, being honest. And I want to protect young girls in a locker room, or young girls in sport who shouldn't have to go against biological men."

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For every Clay Travis...

...or Riley Gaines...

...there are ten rainbow rejects and unhinged progressives seething, like this 'basketball' writer for Forbes.

Besides the attacks on speakers like Riley Gaines at events, you only have to look at what's happening in the ongoing battle at San Jose State University in California over keeping biological males on their women's teams, and the current federal lawsuit, to see how vicious the rabid trans lobby remains.

..."Please come to a Town Hall with SJSU’s President and top administration, and tell them they must stand up for our transgender students," it wrote.

...Just two administrators were seen in attendance.

One by one, pro-trans activists came up to a lectern and unleashed emotionally charged rants, often directed at the two administrators. At one point, one of the speakers expressed being "glad" that the meeting was being recorded, so it could be sent to Teniente-Matson later. A separate video camera was seen recording the event, in the obtained footage.

Harsh orders were delivered to the two administrators there to tell their superiors not to accept the resolution agreement.

"It is about protecting all of the oppressed communities here on campus, doing more than lip service, and doing your job of going to the CSU and saying, 'We will not capitulate to violent transphobic demands or any other oppressive demands that come from this heinous, heinous current administration at all!'" one person exclaimed.

At one point in the meeting, a speaker declared, "It is your job to get in the room with Cynthia to make sure that she conveys all of this information to the relevant people. This isn’t a compromise. We’re talking about people’s human rights. We’re talking about enforcing segregation on our campus. That’s not something we can capitulate to. That’s not something negotiable."

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But, ah - Sophie the MAGA Barbie racist transphobe is the threat.

YEAH

She's scary as the dickens.

I have a feeling she can handle it.

And lucky us.

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David Strom 12:00 PM | July 22, 2026
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